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- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org #LeanInTogether TIPS FOR WOMEN: HOW TO BE A WORKPLACE ALLY Get the complete tips at leanin.org/tips/workplace-ally Getty Images
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org You often hear that women donât support each otherâbut itâs not true. Women do help other woman, and we can be powerful allies at work. There are simple things we can do every day to celebrate and advocate for our female coworkers. Together, we can level the playing field and go further faster. #LEANINTOGETHER HOW TO BE A WORKPLACE ALLY
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org#LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org When women stay quiet, our status suffers: women who speak less in group discussion are seen as having less influence.1
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org 1SITUATIONWomen get less airtime in group discussions.2. We are interrupted moreâby both men and women3âand given less credit for our ideas.4Look for ways to shape the conversation. When a woman is interrupted, interject and say youâd like to hear her finish. If you see a woman struggling to break into the conversation, say youâd like to hear other points of view. When you advocate for your female coworkers, they benefitâand youâre seen as a leader. Moreover, meetings are most effective when everyoneâs best thinking is heard. SOLUTION 1 MAKE SURE WOMENâS IDEAS ARE HEARD
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org#LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org In a recent study, 66 percent of women received negative feedback on their personal style such as âYou can sometimes be abrasive,â compared to less than 1 percent of men.5
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org 2 2 CHALLENGE THE LIKEABILITY PENALTY SITUATION Men are expected to be assertive, so coworkers welcome their leadership. In contrast, women are expected to be nurturing and collaborative, so when we lead, we go against expectationsâand often face pushback from men and women.6 This âlikeability penaltyâ often surfaces in the way women are described. SOLUTION Listen for the language of this likeability penalty. When you hear a woman called âbossyâ or âshrill,â ask, âWould you have the same reaction if a man did the same thing?â In many cases, the answer will be no.
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org#LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org Women are often given less credit for successful outcomes and blamed more for failure.7
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org SITUATION SOLUTION 3 3 CELEBRATE WOMEN'S ACCOMPLISHMENTS Women are often given less credit for successful outcomes and blamed more for failure.8 Conversely, when women celebrate our own accomplishments, we are often penalized for self-promotion.9 As a result of these dynamics, womenâs contributions can go unnoticed. Look for opportunities to celebrate womenâs accomplishments, and point out when women are being blamed unfairly for mistakes. Better yet, get together with a group of women and agree to celebrate one anotherâs successes whenever possible. Although women are often penalized for promoting ourselves, you can lift up other women and they can do the same for you.
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org#LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org Women negotiate less frequently and ask for a third less money when we do.10
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org SOLUTION 4 4 ENCOURAGE WOMEN TO GO FOR IT SITUATION Because female performance is frequently underestimated, women need to work harder to prove weâre just as capable.11 Because the workplace is harder on womenâand we are harder on ourselvesâour confidence often erodes. As a result, many women are less likely to put themselves forward for promotions or negotiate. Look for opportunities to boost your female coworkersâ confidence and encourage them to go for it. If a woman says sheâs not ready for a new project or position, remind her of what sheâs already accomplished. When itâs time to negotiate, encourage her to ask for more and role-play with her to prepare for the discussion.
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org#LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org Women often receive lessâand less helpfulâ feedback.
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org SOLUTION 5 5 GIVE WOMEN DIRECT FEEDBACK While men get specific recommendations for improving their performance, women hear more generic feedback thatâs harder to act on, such as âGood jobâ or âYou need more presence in meetings.â12 Unfortunately, this lack of input slows women down; itâs hard to build skills and advance if you donât know what to do. Find opportunities to give your female coworkers specific input for improving their performance. Whenever possible, share your feedback live and in the moment, when itâs most effective. Treat feedback from others as a gift and solicit it oftenânot only will you benefit from the input, youâll set a great example to the women around you. SITUATION
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org#LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org Women who are mentored by women feel more supported and are often more satisfied with their careers.13
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org SOLUTION 6 6 MENTOR AND SPONSOR OTHER WOMEN Mentorship and sponsorship are key drivers of success, but unfortunately women often miss out. Women are less likely to have mentors who advocate for and promote them, and this type of sponsorship is ultimately what opens doors and creates opportunities.14 Commit the time and energy to mentor another woman. If youâre early in your career, donât underestimate the value of your inputâ you may have just been through what a woman starting out is experiencing. If youâre more senior, go beyond offering advice and use your influence to advocate for your mentee. SITUATION
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org ENDNOTES 1 Christopher Karpowitz, Tali Mendelberg, and Lee Shaker, âGender Inequality in Deliberative Participation,â American Political Science Review 106, no. 3 (2012): 533â47, http://journals.cambridge.org/abstract_S0003055412000329 2 Karpowitz, Mendelberg, and Shaker, âGender Inequality in Deliberative Participation,â Kieran Snyder, âHow to Get Ahead as a Woman in Tech: Interrupt Men,â Slate, July 23, 2014, http://www.slate.com/blogs/lexicon_valley/2014/07/23/study_men_interrupt_women_more_in_tech_workplaces_ but_high_ranking_women.html;Joan C. Williams and Rachel Dempsey, What Works for Women at Work: Four Patterns Working Women Need to Know (New York: NYU Press, 2014). 3 Snyder, âHow to Get Ahead as a Woman in Tech: Interrupt Men.â 4 Adrienne B. Hancock and Benjamin J. Rubin, âInfluence of Communication Partnerâs Gender on Language,â Journal of Language and Social Psychology 34, no. 1 (2015): 46â64, http://jls.sagepub.com/content/34/1/46.full.pdf+html. 5 Kieran Snyder, âThe Abrasiveness Trap: High-Achieving Men and Women Are Described Differently in Reviews,â Fortune, August 26, 2014, http://fortune.com/2014/08/26/performance-review-gender-bias/. 6 Madeline E. Heilman, âGender Stereotypes and Workplace Bias,â Research in Organizational Behavior 32 (2012): 113â 15. 7 Madeline E. Heilman and Michelle C. Hayes, âNo Credit Where Credit Is Due: Attributional Rationalization of Womenâs Success in Male-Female Teams,â Journal of Applied Psychology 90, no. 5 (2005): 905â26; Michelle C. Hayes and Jason S. Lawrence, âWhoâs to Blame? Attributions of Blame in Unsuccessful Mixed-Sex Work Teams,â Basic and Applied Social Psychology 34, no. 6 (2012): 558â64. 8 Ibid.
- #LeanInTogether | LeanInTogether.Org 9. For a review of research see Laurie A. Rudman et al., âReactions to Vanguards: Advances in Backlash Theory,â in Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, ed. Patricia Devine and Ashby Plant (San Diego: Academic Press, 2012), 167; Laurie A. Rudman, âSelf-Promotion as a Risk Factor for Women: The Costs and Benefits of Counterstereotypical Impression Management,â Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 74, no. 3 (1998): 629â 45. 10. Research cited by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman, âThe Confidence Gap,â Atlantic, May 2014, http://www.theatlantic.com/features/archive/2014/04/the-confidence-gap/359815/. See also Lydia Frank, âHow the Gender Pay Gap Widens as Women Get Promoted,â Harvard Business Review, November 5, 2015, https://hbr.org/2015/11/how-the-gender-pay-gap-widens-as-women-get-promoted. 11. Joan C. Williams and Rachel Dempsey, What Works for Women at Work: Four Patterns Working Women Need to Know (New York: NYU Press, 2014). 12. Shelley Correll and Caroline Simard, âResearch: Vague Feedback Is Holding Women Back,â Harvard Business Review, April 29, 2016, https://hbr.org/2016/04/research-vague-feedback-is-holding-women-back. 13. For a review of research see Carol T. Kulik, Isabel Metz, and Jill A. Gould, âIn the Company of Women: The Well- Being Consequences of Working with (and for) Women,â in Handbook on Well-Being of Working Women, ed. Mary L. Connerleyand Jiyun Wu (New York: Springer, 2016), 189; Sarah Dinolfo, Christine Silva, and Nancy M. Carter, High-Potentials in the Pipeline: Leaders Pay It Forward, Catalyst (2012); K. E. OâBrien, A. Biga, S. R. Kessler, and T. D. Allen, âA Meta-Analytic Investigation of Gender Differences in Mentoring,â Journal of Management 36, no. 2 (2010): 537â54, http://jom.sagepub.com/content/36/2/537.short. 14. Herminia Ibarra, Nancy M. Carter, and Christine Silva, âWhy Men Still Get More Promotions Than Women,â Harvard Business Review, September 2010, https://hbr.org/2010/09/why-men-still-get-more-promotions-than-women ENDNOTES